An Open Letter to the NRA

I was raised in the south by a dad who mounted a gun rack in every truck he had before it ever left the dealership. I spent the early part of my childhood wedged in the middle seat straddling the stick shift and trying to maneuver my body so that the butt of my dad’s shotgun didn’t slam into my hip when we hit a bump in the road. So I get the right to bear arms. I was raised with that mentality. I was raised with that respect. I still have some guns that my dad collected during his life, because they meant a lot to him, so therefore, they mean a lot to me. My dad was a member of your organization. So was my dad’s dad. And probably on up the line.

But I am raising a college student. One who has to navigate hallways with thousands of other college students on a daily basis of whom I don’t know. I don’t know their parents, or how they were raised. Therefore, every time that my son leaves our driveway to go to his campus hundreds of miles away, I am putting his life into God’s hands, the hands of legislators and lawmakers, and major influential organizations like yours who have political power. And though I will never lose faith in God, I am losing faith in you and the legislators and lawmakers who make the decisions to keep my son, and every child and young person who is seeking an education under the privilege of being an American citizen, safe. More than once I have begged my son “please, if something happens, just run. Please don’t try to be a hero. Please son. Just run.” But even as I say the words, I know he wouldn’t. I know his heart. He would want to stop the pain. It’s how he was made, it’s how I raised him. But now I am contradicting the morals I taught because I just want my child to come home. Just like every other mother and father that send their kids to school. We just want them to come home.

I am tired of hearing about rights and freedom. Please don’t get on TV or tell some person in the media to tell me about people’s rights or the freedom to bear arms anymore. Because every time I hear that, I can’t help but think, “what about the right and freedom of American children to get an education without getting shot? What about the rights and freedom of educators to teach our children without trying to figure out how they can cover enough kid’s bodies so that their students won’t get shot?” Education is the true foundational freedom that can set us apart as a country. Not guns. Education is one of only a few things that we as parents can give our children that cannot be stolen or taken away. And now, every parent who enrolls their child in school has the fear of standing in that same parking lot with crime tape encircling it, just praying they will come out. You can’t tell me that you don’t have that fear too. I know that you do.

It’s true that our generation and generations before ours grew up with the right to bear a variety of arms, and we didn’t have the type of violence in schools that we have now. But I don't believe that we can legislate for present or future populations anymore based on the past. This is a different generation of kids, it is a different generation of parents. The reality is that the morality of our country’s makeup has changed. It is sad, it is tragic, but it is a fact.

This has to stop.

My dad taught me about guns. But he also taught me about compromise, and when to say “when.” Enough is enough. American parents need you to offer a resolution. A compromise. Every mother in America is begging for it. It isn’t about party lines anymore. It’s about our children.

Sincerely,

A mom.

A Nation's Crisis in Historical Education

When I returned to college as an undergraduate student over the age of forty, it was a wake-up call on several levels.  Life lessons can appear in a variety of ways, and for me, one particular lesson accompanied an assignment to give a speech on an influential person in history that somehow affected my personal views or motivation for success.  I chose Harriet Tubman.  After presenting the speech to my 18 to 20-year-old classmates, I was particularly struck by two comments.  One student told me that she really appreciated my speech because she had never heard of Harriet Tubman before.  The other student asked me where the Underground Railroad was located because he was interested in visiting it.  This is when I realized that our country is facing a crisis in historical education. 

We all have done things in our past that we regret.  However, it is often that regret that pushes us forward into a more streamlined, positive direction.  Without the detour provided by the mistake that was made, we would have missed the smoother path altogether.  American history is stockpiled with mistakes.  However, some are making huge efforts to sweep these mistakes under the proverbial rug.

Representatives in some states are making relentless efforts to water-down history that does not reflect the majority’s present day morals.  In doing so, we must ask ourselves what the possible consequences could be of diluting, removing, or backgrounding negative aspects of American History within educational texts.  The problem, of course, within the efforts to hide history is two-fold.  History tends to have a cyclical effect when strong efforts are not made to prevent past mistakes from reoccurring.  If texts are changed due to present day moral structures, it would not be a stretch to assume that actual morality could shift in the future because students will not have been taught the catastrophic effects of the country’s historical mistakes.  This, of course, would also cause more detriment to the reverence of historical education.

The exit of socially motivated change in history seems to be one of the pivotal factors within the argument.  In Jefferson County Colorado, board member Julie Williams stated, "Materials should promote citizenship, patriotism, essentials and benefits of the free enterprise system, respect for authority and respect for individual rights. Materials should not encourage or condone civil disorder, social strife or disregard of the law."  The key problem with William’s projected purpose of educational materials is that history does not often reflect the same values that she would like it to reflect.  After all, we had to make a lot of mistakes to get us to where we are today.  That is the point.

Re-envisioning history seems to be running rampant within political agendas.  In March of 2015, the Atlanta Journal-Constitution printed a story about advanced placement history courses being under heightened criticism for presenting a “radically revisionist view.”  The resolution came with the denouncement of the new advanced placement U.S. History curriculum, which Georgia State Sen. William Ligon refers to as “a radically revisionist view of American history that emphasizes negative aspects of our nation’s history while omitting or minimizing positive aspects.”  The statement “negative aspects” begs the question of how much positivity whitewashing the past can dictate, and whether it outweighs erasing the cost of one human life, or liberty gained or lost in history.  Certain aspects of the Civil Rights Movement were left in the curriculum, such as the Black Panthers, while other integral events, such as Rosa Parks and the bus boycotts, were left out.  So, once again, we are left to wonder whose perspective determines which historical events are chosen to be preserved.

The battle lines between the political parties seem to be clearly drawn; however, editing the books to accommodate each party’s views seems to consist of nothing more than a doodle.  No clear answer is given as to what exactly should be edited, what should not be edited, and what the consequence of those edits might be.  In fact, no answer was given regarding the cost future generations who are shielded from the truth about our nation’s history will have to pay, and I believe that is a consequence that needs to be clearly defined.

 One obvious consequence of editing textbooks with the goal of smoothing racial tension is that it will, instead, exacerbate the racial divide and create a larger chasm.  Acclaimed writer Toni Morrison in her essay “Playing in the Dark” talks about racial frustration directly. She states, “It is further complicated by the fact that the habit of ignoring race is understood to be a graceful, even generous, liberal gesture.  To notice is to recognize an already discredited difference.  To enforce its invisibility through silence is to allow the black body a shadowless participation in the dominant cultural body.  According to this logic, every well-bred instinct argues against noticing and forecloses adult discourse.”  This “shadowless participation” that Morrison refers to creates a haunting image.  The mind conjures up the faceless images of the suffering of millions to slavery, segregation, Jim Crow laws, and citizen-spawned lynchings.  If we wipe the faces clean of the emotional and physical suffering people have endured, we are, in effect, re-illustrating history as a picture to our own liking.  This creates a fictional play for younger generations, not history.

Another consequence of removing historical events from textbooks is a generational division.  If one generation is taught about Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, Medgar Evers, Joseph McCarthy, the Holocaust, and the like, but the next generation is not, the disparity between generations can become vast.  Throughout the ages, older generations have shared with younger generations, through oratory customs and storytelling, the historical events and wisdom collected through time.  However, the revamping of historical data to try to technicolor history with sepia tones will sever this timeless tradition.  If efforts to repaint history within historical texts are implemented, generations will be taught contrasting historical takes on the same historical events, and no one will know what to believe.  Nevertheless, it is happening.  The wide sweeping arm that longs to brush our nation’s history under the rug is building its own history within many states.

Covering up our nation’s blemishes definitely seems to be of a refined focus in the past five years in the state of Texas.  In 2010, according to the article “Texas board approves social studies standards that perceived liberal bias” written by Michael Bimbaum, the decision was made to change state textbooks to reflect that the McCarthy era of the 1950s was later vindicated, and for the books to propose that “the United Nations imperil American sovereignty.”  But what about the sovereignty of education?  The peril of the state of education must be measured and well identified before steps are taken to eradicate the unclean. 

A shift in classroom rhetoric is a dangerous one to make because the effects will reverberate for generations to come.  The calculated examination of what element of educational context is pulled out of the classroom must be thoroughly considered so that the consequence of a new classroom rhetoric doesn’t weigh heavier on future generations than the presentation of the controversy would.  Though it is too early to have solid indicators on the results of censoring history within classrooms, we can identify other shockwaves on classroom rhetoric through the efforts of protecting the younger generations of students.  In “Yale’s Unsafe Spaces,” Meghan O’Rourke explores the shift in the rhetoric of higher learning classrooms and the need for safety and entitlement that has shrouded student bodies in recent years.  In Laura Kipnis’s essay “Sexual Paranoia Strikes Academe,” published in The Chronicle of Higher Education, in reference to the now controversial subject of professors dating students, she makes a statement that forces us as citizens to analyze the broader subject of students’ increased sensitivities: “If this is feminism, it’s feminism hijacked by melodrama. The melodramatic imagination’s obsession with helpless victims and powerful predators is what’s shaping the conversation of the moment, to the detriment of those whose interests are supposedly being protected, namely students. The result?  Students’ sense of vulnerability is skyrocketing.” Protecting the feelings of future generations of students may actually be their greatest punishment.

If history is, in fact, cyclical and mistakes are repeated throughout history (as history itself suggests), the forcible change that comes with establishing new expectations of the presentation of information in the classroom will take its toll in one fashion or another.  Either law classrooms are not able to teach rape law anymore due to protecting the sensitivity of students, which will leave rape victims lacking representation, or the definition of slavery is redefined indefinitely by exempting key figures that fought to dismantle it out of texts.  In order to be sensitive to an issue, elimination of that issue may be construed as censorship, but rewording that issue may have even harsher connotations, such as lying.  In October of 2015, McGraw-Hill was called to task when a Texas parent put a picture of her son’s World Geography textbook, which referred to slaves as “workers,” on social media. The term workers implies that these people were paid.  That may be the case for many parents who drop their kids off at school every day—they go to “work” and get paid.  So, the only frame of reference these students have is that these “workers”  were much like their parents, which changes the entire context of the historical events that took place, creating aftershocks throughout history that are still felt today.

 Words count.  They just do.  

Snowpocalypse 2014: Apology Accepted. Oh, wait...

When children are little, one of the first things we do is teach them to say “I’m sorry.”  We do it because it teaches them compassion for others, how to take responsibility, learn how to respect others, as well as how to learn from their mistakes.  So I can’t help but wonder if all of the kids that sat on buses for much of the night last night or slept on the floors in their schools in Atlanta were thinking that someone might say that to them.  May actually take responsibility for an epic fail in decision making.  Unfortunately some did, but not all.  Apparently some adults have forgotten how. 

As a native Atlantan, I have been through several of these snow storms and have listened to the criticism many times over the years.  But here are the facts:  Atlanta is simply not equipped for storms that involve ice and snow.  We do not have chains on our cars, most do not have all wheel drive because it is rarely needed and an added expense, and we only drive on ice maybe once every four years.  That barely constitutes practice.  And besides the UGG wearers, most commuters don’t wear winter boots, or heavy winter coats.  Plus, we have one of the worst traffic situations in the country when it isn’t snowing or sleeting.  You add ice and snow, and well, chaos unfolds as was demonstrated yesterday.  That is why we have weather forecasters with systems in place called “Warnings” and “Watches.”  Apparently, some people don’t understand the difference between a warning or a watch, so allow me to explain.  A “Watch” means that there is weather coming that is conducive for bad weather to occur.  A “Warning” means it is going to happen.  We don’t know exactly when, we don’t know exactly where, but we know it is going to happen.  Tornadoes are a great example of this.  Everyone seems to understand that when there is a tornado warning in your area that you should go to your basement, and get under something like a mattress or something of that nature, curl into a ball and protect your head.  It may come, it may not, but you are prepared.  But for some reason, administrators and school superintendents just don’t seem to understand that this preparation rule should apply for ALL weather warnings.  So, that being said, when there is a “Winter Storm WARNING” you should probably not put every kid in the state in school buses and plan a regularly scheduled school day. 

This is where the necessary apology comes in.  Most public schools in Georgia do not allow absences except in medical issues or deaths in the family, and even with medical issues you better have a doctor’s note and you may still get a truancy warning in the mail.  So when they make the decision that there is school today, then you send your kid to school.  Even in private schools, if your kid misses school especially in the older grades, it gets really hard to make up that school work, so if there is school you send them.  The decision is not left up to the parent.  The parent trusts the schools to make these decisions soundly and with great thought and concern for the wellbeing of the students, because there is just too much red tape for parents to break through if their kids miss school.  And if you do decide to have school even when the chances of snow and ice are over 70% the night before, and there is a “Winter Storm Warning” in place, expect to say you’re sorry the next day, because you have really messed up.  The fact is that you can’t gamble when it comes to nature.  The cost is too great if you lose. 

People make mistakes, we all get it, because we all do it.  But in order to teach our children how to take responsibility, role models really need to demonstrate it for them.  Just say you’re sorry.  It will only hurt for a minute and you will gain a lot of respect in the end.

Do fans still consider Brad Paisley an "Accidental Racist"?

In the wake of the announcement of acclaimed country music singer Brad Paisley’s return to Atlanta in the summer of 2014, one wonders if the tensions in his song “The Accidental Racist” on his last album Wheelhouse reflecting on the still prevalent silence on the effects of racism and the Civil War is still on the minds of music fans.

 With regard to this issue, the words of Toni Morrison, in her essay “Playing in the Dark” comes to mind.  http://www.amazon.com/Playing-Dark-Whiteness-Literary-Imagination/dp/0679745424  While regarding race in literature she states that “it is further complicated by the fact that the habit of ignoring race is understood to be a graceful, even generous, liberal gesture.  To notice is to recognize an already discredited difference.  To enforce its invisibility through silence is to allow the black body a shadowless participation in the dominant cultural body.  According to this logic, every well-bred instinct argues against noticing and forecloses adult discourse.”  We can utilize this statement in examination of not only a vast amount of literature, but can also extend the net to include other forms of art as well.

In 2012, Brad Paisley teamed up with acclaimed rap singer LL Cool J, to write with Lee Thomas Miller, for Paisley’s new album Wheelhouse, a song penned “The Accidental Racist,” which brings to the surface how damaging ignoring race and all of the discord in the past that Morrison spoke of still can be.  Paisley speaks in a stream of consciousness style as a southern man wearing a Lynyrd Skynyrd shirt with a Confederate flag on it walking into a Starbucks feels immediate tension.  LL Cool J responds to it also in unspoken conversation.  Examples of the lyrics are:

Brad Paisley: “…the only thing I meant to say is I’m a Skynyrd fan.  The red flag on my chest is somehow like the elephant in the corner of the South…  I’m proud of where I’m from, but not everything we’ve done.  It ain’t like you and me to rewrite history.”

LL Cool J: “You should try to get to know me, I really wish you would.  Now my chains are gold, but I’m still misunderstood.”

Interestingly, though the song was construed of thoughts and not the conversation it could have been, it still ensued a large reaction and controversy in the media.  Critics extensively panned both Paisley and LL Cool J in their efforts to speak on the issue that people apparently wish to remain unspoken.  One of the biggest criticisms (though there were many) came from Billboard Magazine’s Jason Lipshutz when he stated that although the song obviously had good intentions it “fails to become more than a flat-footed apology for hate-induced uneasiness.”  One of the harshest criticisms was directed at one of LL Cool J’s verses when Lipshutz stated that his line about the gold chains versus slavery’s iron chains was “the most downright offensive line.  Maybe…’forget’ is the wrong verb to use in this line?  Does anyone really want to ‘forget’ the horrors of slavery instead of learn from them?” http://www.billboard.com/articles/columns/pop-shop/1556654/brad-paisleys-accidental-racist-ll-cool-js-10-craziest-lyrics   In response to Lipshutz, Morrison may counter that if discussion or addressing of issues is shut down, than how can we possibly learn from the horrific choices or mistakes that were made?

Education and knowledge seems to be the pervasive power than can penetrate through ignorance that would include prejudice and racism.  If art and literature act as the creative medium where issues can be discussed and analyzed, but those actions are then suppressed, then how possibly can we be educated as to the human condition.  Morrison’s words  in “Playing in the Dark” on how …”ignoring race is understood to be a graceful, even generous, liberal gesture,” but  addressing it and trying to discuss the feelings surrounding it unfortunately  causes discourse certainly does ring true in this issue surrounding “The Accidental Racist” as Paisley and LL Cool J have learned.